Bum’s top picks
A Love Letter to Pleasure
(and everyone who enjoys it)
I created Bum Oil because I couldn’t find anything that matched my body’s needs and my values.
I wanted something that felt amazing, did no harm, and made intimacy safer, longer-lasting,
and more fun - for all of us: bottoms, tops, sides, and solo stars.
– Paal, Founder & Chief Bum Officer

A Love Letter to Pleasure (and everyone who enjoys it)
I created Bum Oil because I couldn’t find anything that matched my body’s needs and my values. I wanted something that felt amazing, did no harm, and made intimacy safer, longer-lasting, and more fun - for all of us: bottoms, tops, sides, and solo stars.
– Paal, Founder & Chief Bum Officer
Between the Cheeks

Meet the Makers: Behind the Scenes with Our Founders
Two worlds, one mission: to create a joy-fueled, stigma-free future for bottoms (and everyone else).
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Why Pleasure & Wellness Go Hand in Hand
Because taking care of your body should feel good, and we mean really good.
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How BUM Oil Became a Self-Care Essential
From coastal Norway to Florida, via California and Hawaii, what began as skincare became a clean, body-safe balm for connection, care, and everyday comfort.
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They Came. They Reviewed.
I used to mix my own oils and pretend it was ‘natural.’ This? This is luxury. It stays exactly where it should, lasts all night, and my skin feels amazing the next day. Finally, a lube made for us, not just sold to us.
— Alex, NYC
I have sensitive skin and zero patience. Bum Oil checks every box. Thick, smooth, no weird smell, no stickiness. Just pure glide and confidence. It honestly changed how I feel about bottoming.
— Brad, NY
My boyfriend literally said, ‘What is this and why is it so good?’ It’s rich without being messy, sexy without being trashy, and I love that it’s non toxic. It feels intentional. Like someone actually cared.
— Chris, Miami
Let’s just say… we did not have to reapply. Once. And the sheets survived. Five stars.
— Jordan, NY






